Tag: introvert

  • Are Labels Helpful?

    This week I am thinking about the labels we put on ourselves, the labels other people put on us, and the labels we want. Partly because today is PTSD Awareness Day, and partly because a colleague is celebrating a different diagnosis that has given him relief and closure.

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  • My article on Quiet Revolution

    I had an article published on Quiet Revolution! It is:

    An open letter to everyone who has ever made me feel like there is something wrong with me—unintentionally or otherwise.

    Read it here:

    http://www.quietrev.com/portraits/sam-rose/

    Hope it is relatable – I’ve had some really nice comments on it already, which is awesome!

  • Straightening out 10 assumptions* people make about me because I’m quiet, none of which are true

    I’m not shy

    I don’t have low confidence

    I don’t prefer quiet environments

    I am usually quite happy and cheerful

    I don’t dislike you (probably)

    I’m not bored (probably)

    I’m not mysterious or thinking deep thoughts

    I don’t need you to speak up for me or talk to other people for me

    I don’t need you to help me to be louder or to invite me to talk

    Calling me quiet like it’s a bad thing (or doing any of these) does make me want to hit you

    *emphasis on the ASS

    Add your own to this list in the comments!